I often receive emails from guys inquiring about becoming a domestic servant, while I AM flattered & I’m sure some of these inquiries could be sincere- an equal number are fantastical fetish fantasies of being summoned 24/7 for oral worship & booty rubbing kinks.

5 things I look for in house subs

1. Compatible kink/ fetish interests ~ I ask a lot & in return, I also work these mutual interests into your time with me
2. Attention to detail ~ I expect you to clean & I expect you to do it well, I have pets, you will be battling dust bunnies & cleaning up after them as well. Those floors, doors, light switches & fan blades need to be spotless, my rock collection needs to be dusted & mirrors & tables need windex. laundry needs to be washed, sorted & put away, my shoes may need to be cleaned or the closet organized.
3. Comfortable with animals ~ I have pets & I also don’t want you cleaning with anything that could be hazardous to their health, you’ll also need to deep clean their enclosure once per month
4. Time management ~ You need to be able to prioritize & schedule tasks so everything gets done, some things don’t need to be done weekly like wiping down doors, light switches & baseboards or dusting fans, some things need to be done even less frequently like helping me wax or organizing my closet & toy closet.
   You will be asked to wash my laundry, clean, cook, handle post office runs, bring coffee, organize computer files, help me paint my nails, wax, take pictures, post things for me because I prefer writing on paper over typing.
5. Flexibility- I will need you to perform all kinds of different tasks, I am willing to teach you how to do some of them but you need to be a fast learner. Having a flexible schedule is also useful when I have random errands or tasks I need you to handle.

I want these things done & I want them done well & wholeheartedly in the spirit of service & consensual servitude. I assure you I can work our mutual interests into the experience without you performing poorly to provoke punishment.

I also don’t want some stranger from the internet living in a cage under my bed 24/7, there are not only safety issues but also privacy concerns & my need for alone time. I prefer to start with 1 or 2 days a week you are at my disposal for things I need. If I were to entertain a 27/7 scenario it would be after years of building a D/s relationship, consistent dedication to service, an overall great vibe & considerable financial contribution to the household in the form of things like groceries, furniture & decor, kitchen gadgets, spoiling the pets. you would still need to be able to support yourself, I am not housing the kink version of hobosexuals. My admin and cleaning days are Sunday & Monday- if your schedule permits you may also be requested for smaller tasks throughout the week for smaller tasks & errands. At minimum, you need to have 1 full 10-hour day per week that you can dedicate to performing your duties, any extra days/hours are open to negotiation weekly.

I am not seeking sexually explicit service unless you count the thrill I get from paddling a naughty spanko, giggling at an especially small penis, tickling someone until they pee themselves or encouraging a sissy maid who is shy about dressing up. None of what “gets me off” requires my genitals, this may be one of the reasons I favor subs in chastity, once you stop worrying about having your pee-pee touched ~ you’ll open yourself up to more deep & satisfying experience. First, you have to let your mind get fucked & let it take you to that soft, squishy brain place that is sub-space.